Until the end of time, men and women will always be in and out of relationships. The reasons will be different for everyone, but all in all, there's nothing new under the sun-what you experience and wonder, thousands more also have, and will experience and wonder the very same things.

3 common questions men and women, alike, often ask, will be answered in my commentary, but let's first understand that there is never a guarantee of reconciliation; however, if you are even asking, "Can I get my ex ex-girlfriend revenge back?" chances are probably good that you can. The reason for this is that we generally don't "hold on" to a hope for something that, deep down inside, we know will never happen! So be encouraged in your pursuit of getting her back.

Now . . . let's look at a common complaint by women about men: MOST women grumble about their man not being "sensitive" enough, leaving men with the question, "If I become more sensitive, can I get my ex ex-girlfriend revenge back?" Answer: Yes, it's possible. But don't expect it to happen overnight-if this was a previous area in which you were sorely lacking, then she'll need some time to be convinced that your "new" sensitivities are an evidence of genuine change within you.

Some things to become aware of are: LISTENING skills-it's not enough just to say you hear her-how you take "action" on what she's said says that you consider her wishes as valid-which, in her eyes, makes her valuable to you!

Another thing to be conscious of is thoughtfulness or attentiveness-these accomplish the same outcome that you "taking action on her wishes" provided . . . the difference is that YOU thought of it! Get it? You THOUGHT of it . . . "thoughtful" . . . does it ring any bells? Anyway . . . that goes even further toward convincing her of her significance to you.

"Will dating other women make her want me back?"

Answer: I wouldn't recommend dating someone else for the sole purpose of getting her back-even if she feels jealous enough to take you back, it probably won't last because the original issues would still remain. Her taking you back would only be to keep you from finding someone else before she does. I'm sure you don't want to play those games-you want your relationship to be based on reality.

"Is there any chance I can get my ex ex-girlfriend revenge back if she's found a new boyfriend?

Answer: Anything's possible-the "new boyfriend" circumstance may not be serious (depending on how long you two have been apart); if it's not been that long, then start making your presence known by becoming the sensitive and thoughtful man we spoke of earlier.

Be a good friend by supporting her, complimenting her . . . and a little reminiscing doesn't hurt either, but don't go overboard with these things; it has to appear that you've accepted being apart. And whatever you do-Don't speak negatively against the new boyfriend, just occasionally "suggest" that you wish you had another chance with her because you know things could be different this time. Be smooth-we love that stuff!

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