I recently came across this headline on a dating site from a woman, "frustrated big time"...hmmm..not many men will find THAT appealing. If you're feeling this way, get over it.

As I continued to read her profile, it was just more of the sad melodramatic story about how she was tired of jerks and men who done her wrong. Good grief.

Men run away from these kinds of women like running away from a tsunami. Well, if you were a man, would you want a woman who appears this negative? Do you want to carry this sort of dead weight?

Probably not.

If you are frustrated about dating, don't wear it like bad makeup. Inspite of it all, there is always another way and another day.

It's ok to vent to your ex-girlfriend revenges about this but don't advertise your frustration to men. They'll think you're a drama mama who can't be successful at anything including trying to land a man.

The best position to take is to look inside of you. Why do you keep putting out the sort of energy that brings in these types? Is there something about your thinking, your attitude that you can change? How can you become the best woman who can really shine in every area of your life?

It's just not a good idea to tell men that you're tired of the creeps, that you've been hurt, that you're been locked away with a dragon for years or that you're on your second season of men "who did me wrong."

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