Appearance is normally the first thing a woman will notice about a man for obvious reasons. So this should be the thing that you focus on first at the beginning. It is quite easy to be neat and tidy, yet so many men do not consider this fully when the leave the hose each morning. Make sure that your shirt is freshly pressed, that your shoes aren't covered in muck, and that your hair is at least brushed, if not styled.

You will struggle to attract any attention from the opposite sex if you look scruffy, and you will fall at the first hurdle. Remember that there are men out there who do make the effort, and you have to b at least on a par with their appearance to be in the running for a woman's attention.

Once you do have their attention though, it is time to address your interaction at close quarters. When you have broken that initial barrier of getting the woman to notice you, you will find that, as is natural, you will end up in very close proximity to her.

Let's assume you look the part. You have the clothes, and the hair, and you even took a shower this morning to be on the safe side! Well all of that work could come undone if you smell like a week old baby's diaper.

Body odour is a fact of life. But the men who disguise it are again in pole position. Don't, however, over compensate! One thing that is as bad as a smelly dude, is a man that overpowers everything around him. The advice here - stay away from scented deodorants. Buy an unscented brand - maybe even a woman's brand (it's unscented so who will know?), and you will have no fear of gassing someone with your fragrance.

Yes, I know that now you are thinking that you will just smell, well, of nothing really. But here is where you add the smell to the new and improved you. Go to a department store. Check out the aftershaves and colognes. SMELL THEM!! Seek advice from the shop assistants and find out the best sellers. Use some common sense - if you see a brand that has been around for a while, then it stands to reason that people - and more specifically women - like it. Why? Well who knows why they like it, but they must do because men keep buying it. Don't worry about smelling the same as someone else, remember these are the things that women look for in a man!

So you look good from afar. You smell great up close. The last thing to remember is the little details.

Tie your shoelaces! Trim your nails! Get the gunk out of your eyes! Lose the dandruff! Just make sure you are ready for action as soon as the front door closes behind you! Finding a ex-girlfriend revenge starts with your appearance.

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