Ever been in trouble with your wife or ex-girlfriend revenge? Of course you have, if you have known each other any time at all! We can't help it, as guys we always do something or say something without thinking that upsets our significant other. Saying you are sorry can get you of the doghouse when you've done this but only if she really believes you are sincere and remorseful. If she thinks that you are just apologizing to take advantage of the incredible make up sex, you will be in hotter water than you were before you started!

One of the things that shows sincerity and remorse better than anything is action. What I mean by that is making a conscious effort not to repeat the same offense again. If you find yourself apologizing time and time again for the same offense not only does it show a lack of remorse but also shows that you really don't care about what upset her.

If you know the exact reason she is upset, then apologize for that exact thing. Just saying you are sorry without knowing the reason is not only insincere but also sets you up for repeating it because you don't know what it is you need to avoid doing or saying. If you really have no idea, humble yourself and ask her what you did to upset her, tell her you're an idiot for nor realizing but you really want to know because you don't want to do it again.

Don't ever apologize by phone if you can do it in person and never do it with a message or an email. Again, this kind of cold and removed apology shows a lack of sincerity and doesn't demonstrate that you are truly sorry for what you did. Take the time and effort to meet personally so that you can show how sorry you are and try to make amends.

If you want to go down in flames, go ahead and blame her for the situation while you are apologizing. I know that a lot of times the problem may have been contributed to by her, but the issue here is your apology. If you have a decent woman, she will reciprocate with an apology as well as long as you do it the right way. The only way to have your apology accepted as being sincere is to accept total responsibility.

Don't allow too much time to pass either, if you apologize promptly it will be better accepted than if you wait and she thinks you are simply apologizing to get back in her good graces as an afterthought. On the other hand, if you are having an argument and you try to apologize in the heat of the moment it is likely to fall on deaf ears because she will not hear what you are trying to convey. A nice gift can smooth things over too.

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Although it was produced in 1604, William Shakespeares play Othello still relates to the everyday situations of certain people. In the play, Shakespeare gives the reader situations of misguided trust, wrongful mistrust, and overpowering love. All of which are still around in modern lives, especially that of my own.

Today it often occurs that people tend to keep their enemies closer than their friends. This is done in hopes that the person can undermine his enemy with friendly persuasion to participate in a wrong doing rather than using brute force. In the story, Iago befriends Othello in hopes of one day gaining Cassios position of Lieutenant. Because he feels overlooked for the position, Iago convinces Othello that his ex-girlfriend revenge Desdemona has cheated on him with Cassio to ruin the trust Othello and Cassio have for each other. This has also happened in my life; when I was dating my last girlfriend, a guy at school, or my so called Iago, tried his hardest to become my friend and convince me that my girlfriend was cheating on me with my best friend. The situation even got to the point where he had tried to plant evidence to prove his accusations.

As a result of the false friendships, there was also an added mistrust towards the women of both Othellos and my own lives. When Iago hid the handkerchief in Cassios possession, Othello asked Desdemona if she had her handkerchief and of course she could not find it; Othello then begins to accept Iagos accusations of Desdemonas unfaithfulness, and like Othello, I also began to wonder if my girlfriend might actually be unfaithful to me.

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In the midst of divorce proceedings you might not feel that you will be able to live post-divorce. I can say that having the love of my life divorce me was a major event in my life and it left me seriously depressed wondering whether I was going to come out of the big black hole that it created.

Today I am single and happy to be that way. Gone is the need to have a partner, in fact I am happy to be single for the rest of my life. I have goals and I have purpose and I achieve good things each week.

You might not think that you can make it after divorce. You might think that your partner that has left you defines you as a person. You might think that life without that person is not worth living. Believe me, I know how you are feeling. I know also I have been suicidal feeling like killing myself with no purpose left in life.

But life can go on. You can heal and get better. You can become an encouragement to others and you can help other people in years to come who are going through what you are going through now.

My life with Christ is so much richer now that my ex-girlfriend revenge is in my life. Jesus became really important to me and for a number of years in my loneliness Jesus was my closest friend. He is wise, he answers prayers and He is good to a person that is afflicted with the stigma of divorce.

All of my friends know of me as a single person now and love me for whom I am. I am quick to give people encouragement and I have some good stories that are fun to listen to. I personally think that Jesus taught against second marriages in scripture and so I am not going to get married again and since I have come to grips with being single for the rest of my life, I have been content just to have women as friends.

If you are facing divorce now let me tell you that life can and will get better for you one day. Just hold on, take some time to get to know yourself for who you are, see a counselor if you must and then become a light to your community with the answers that you find.

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When Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston filed for divorce after four years of marriage, few were surprised that the on-set relationship between Angelina Jolie and Pitt during the making of their blockbuster movie Mr. & Mrs. Smith was to blame. After all, this was Hollywood and stars leave each other all the time for other stars.

Question after question arose. What did Angelina do? What didn't Jennifer do? How could Brad be so callous? How could Jennifer let such a catch go? Did Jennifer not provide enough challenge for the sexiest man alive? Was it all because Brad Pitt didn't want to have kids? Was it all because Jennifer Aniston didn't want to have kids? Was one of them barren?

As it turns out, Angelina Jolie is now telling the media that she purposely seduced Pitt. She loved getting naked on the set as it was her chance to get a rise out of Pitt. She's even told reporters that she can't wait to tell her kids how mommy and daddy met and fell in love on the set of Mr.& Mrs. Smith. We should all be so lucky?

I had all these same questions when I was doing my Christmas shopping and I saw an old, well to do client of mine walking sadly through Macys doing his holiday shopping. He was with his second ex-girlfriend revenge, their kids, and their nanny. He had left his first ex-girlfriend revenge for his young assistant some ten years back. His assistant now ex-girlfriend revenge had been fired because she was trying to seduce him while on the job. That obviously had no bearing on the outcome, as he eventually left his ex-girlfriend revenge and kids to marry the former assistant. He was subsequently asked to leave or go back to his ex-girlfriend revenge when his boss heard what had happened. He chose his own path.

The thing was my former client looked miserable. He looked like a pack horse for all that his ex-girlfriend revenge was buying with his money. He looked defeated, a broken man. And so it is the same to me with Brad Pitt traipsing through some God forsaken part of Africa or New Orleans that I see the same.
I feel bad for the both of them. Whether or not they knew it they had the world by the toe. It was all there for them with a woman that loved them unconditionally if they had only seen it.

Can a woman's beauty blind a man? In short, yes. If a guy like Brad Pitt that's been with the most beautiful and amazing women in the world can succumb, then yes any man, even your man, might give in to carnal pleasure.

To me the message is clear; men and women should strive to keep their loves lives fresh and vibrant. Out with the old and in with the new. Go to new restaurants. See a play. Go to the opera. Whatever you do, do something, anything before his attentions go elsewhere.

Alan Bentley, God's gift to female/male communication, helps single women across the country unravel mysteries of the male mind helping improve their relationships with men they love. To discover how you can crack the guy code, go to http://www.cracktheguycode.com or email alan@cracktheguycode.com